FORGIVE AND FORGET

Ya, talkin' bout diz forgive n forget thingy, eventho dey say 'juz forgive them',its really hard to do it *sigh*..And when dey say 'juz forget it,forget it all', diz is harder,really!!!Trust me!!! *big sigh*...And it'll getting harder and harder again when u tried to pretend that everything's okay,that nothing's happen..Life's getting more and more complicated now that i cant even understand it,until i 'bumped' into diz words from diz simple yet ordinary site(dat then give me something to think about, one of the precious lessons of life) :

" There's something greater than revenge, it is forgiveness". To forgive is HARD, but to forget is
IMPOSSIBLE. Somehow, we dont have to forget in order to forgive.Forgiving is a decision. The hurt may still be very much there. But forgive, and you will be freed from all anger and bitterness, be freed from the bound of hatred dat will only hurt u more (revenge will never do the healing, it is always forgiveness)After all, God has given His ALL to forgive us.

Ok, i guess im being Miss Philosophy again rite now :P..But,as a human being,diz is our way to survive dear,say HIP HIP HOORAY!!!!
But itz not over yet(i mean my 'philosophical's mood') Still got more to 'poured' here baybeh!!!Say WE WANT MORE!!!WE WANT MORE!!!...:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don 't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

42 . Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up!

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

-END-

Ok,now,where could i find another philosophical stuff lae????*talk 2 maself*

Blame It On Who,diz tym???!!!

Heiya, browsed the online shopping sites again n damn, the clothes were damn hot, damn cute n i told maself dat i must have at least half of it, but UNFORTUNATELY im damn broke rite now!!!! *sigh* N Diz was usually the times when i will tot 2 maself "if i was a rich gurl........" Haha,ya but dreams will owez be dreams,rite????Besides, its juz one of my I.M.A.G.I.N.A.T.I.O.N
Ya ya, watever...Yesterdae, went 2 shop for groceries wif my lil sista n guess wat???!!!I saw him!!!NO, NOT MY CRUSH[as if,haha..he's(another guy lae) not my crush anymore,long story,past is past,but very stupid and silly *giggles*] Ya,da one dat im talkin about is the guy dat i called C GETE a.k.a PERVERT, but i prefer 2 called him --->c Gete<---perfectly suits him better,LOL..Yucks,he's one of the group of peoples dat i want 2 avoid n wish will never exist in front of me again,but man,he does,unfortunately, datz fate i guess(blame it on the fate *thumbs down* BOOOOOO!!!!!)..And he was standing beside the escalator,talking wif diz guy(know diz one also,we're in the same school 2 years ago)..THanx god i saw dem first n i was lyk 'OMG OMG,he's there, c gete's there,yerrrrrrrrr,wat an unlucky days *sigh*'....So i dragged my lil sista to the junk foods section, moving faster, making sure im far away enuff,ehem i mean runaway from him n his 'dangerous eyes' also(before 'they' spotted me there)haha, and the previously Miss Glam me, whose juz enter the front entrance perfectly gracefully,did the runway walks(Ceh!!!!LOL) turned into Miss I-DUN-CARE-WAT-DA-HELL-IM-LOOKed-LIKE-ANYMORE,cancel the runway, proceed 2 the running away.....N my lil sista was lyk "weyyy,sot2 bha ko diz, bikin malu jak"..N me was lyk juz looked at her, wif the tot "wor,okay"(still bingung2 lae diz) but still running away..
Ya,luckily MY SACRIFICED(runway turned 2 running away *giggles*) worths it..Wat a really lil hometown i lived now, no doubt it was lyk u've got 97.99% i say, dat u'll bump into persons dat u know(schoolmate,ex-schoolmate,childhood fwens,CRUSHCRUSHCRUSH,ex-boyfwen)then,lucky u!!!HAHA,but worst is when u bump into the persons dat u didnt wish 2 meet again,then, datz VERY UNLUCKY *touch da wood*..but no matter wat it'll still be my dear hometown,my home sweet home(of coz im not gonna tell u where it is coz datz mean i juz free-free give y'all another clue of who i am larr,haha,na'ah,sorry guys!!!!)

We want More!!!Im a quiz-digger!!!

Never tot my inner child was like diz,i guess 50-50 lar...

Your Inner Child Is Surprised

You see many things through the eyes of a child. Meaning, you're rarely cynical or jaded. You cherish all of the details in life. Easily fascinated, you enjoy experiencing new things.

How Is Your Inner Child?

Owez wondered wat kind of seducer i am all diz tym, i guess diz one is true,LOL,au natural baybeh!!!

Your Seduction Style: Au Natural

You rank up there with your seduction skills, though you might not know it. That's because you're a natural at seduction. You don't realize your power! The root of your natural seduction power: your innocence and optimism. You're the type of person who happily plays around and creates a unique little world. Little do you know that your personal paradise is so appealing that it sucks people in. You find joy in everything - so is it any surprise that people find joy in you? You bring back the inner child in everyone you meet with your sincere and spontaneous ways. Your childlike (but not childish) behavior also inspires others to care for you. As a result, those who you befriend and date tend to be incredibly loyal to you.

What Kind of Seducer Are You?

Am i a hottie????i dunno,haha,never tot about it before ;p,ok ok,i'll admit it,maybe sumtyms i did have a tot bout it but not in a really SERIOUS way,come on people,if i wanna know whether im a real hottie or not,no doubt i'll have to ask people around about it,rite???!!! But hell-no,datz just so CHEAP, juz imagined u goes up to diz stranger n ask him 'Hey u!!!Do u think im hot???Plz,answer me!!!!'..Haha,so damn funny wor if got lyk dat,wat a desperate chix!!!!So,moral of the story, DUN ASK JUZ WAIT 4 SUMONE 2 TOLD U SO!!!!;p
But really,diz words really caught my eyes--- ' You're the type of woman that men love to chase,
But if you don't stop running, you'll never get caught!'---...Haha,no wonder im still single but not available..Man,i never tot i was a difficult challenge 4 u guys out there!!!

Men See You As: A Difficult Challenge

You must be an incredible hottie... Because it's the only way you can pull of the ice queen act You're the type of woman that men love to chase But if you don't stop running, you'll never get caught!

Do Men Find You a Challenge?

Like i say before,im in between, still got a long way 2 go baybeh!!!

You Are 57% Grown Up, 43% Kid

You've grown up a good bit, but you still have a way to go before you're emotionally mature. You have the skills to control your emotions, you just have to use them.

How Emotionally Mature Are You?

Thanx god im not the shy chic,haha, i know it better,but itz ok wat,juz for fun and MAKING SURE..LOL

You Are 32% Shy

You are slightly shy, but overall, your reactions to social situations are normal. You dread difficult social situations, but you still handle them with grace.

How Shy Are You?

YA,sapot diz one..whats wrong wif being single???!!!U have freedom,'enuff air to breath',can hang out or flirt wif any guys,anytime u want!!!and the most important thing is ,no one will break ur heart!!!SAY NO TO RELATIONSHIP'S RESPONSIBILITY(damm,i hate diz one)Better wait 4 Mr.Right than 2 date wif the jackass!!!

You Are Pretty Happy Being Single

You have a full, fun life. And you definitely don't need love to be content. Of course, being single can get you down a little. Especially when you've been single for a while. But you know how to be patient and wait for the right person. You're life is too good to settle for anything!

Are You Happy Being Single?

100% true!!!

You Are Fairly Skeptical

You're not the type of person who will fall for anything... But you do keep your mind open to all sorts of possibilities. You figure that anything could be true. After all, the world is a strange place. However, you're going to need some convincing before you can believe in aliens or reincarnation!

How Skeptical Are You?

You Have Your Sarcastic Moments

While you're not sarcastic at all times, you definitely have a cynical edge. In your opinion, not all people are annoying. Some are dead! And although you do have your genuine moments, you can't help getting your zingers in. Some people might be a little hurt by your sarcasm, but it's more likely they think you're hilarious.

How Sarcastic Are You?

Reminds me of The Gossip Girl...

You Are Totally Addicted to Gossip

You love gossip - even when it's about you. You're up on the latest news about your friends and celebrities. In fact, people know to turn to you when they need the scoop. You don't feel bad about dishing the dirt. If you don't want to be talked about - don't live it!

Are You Addicted to Gossip?

Haha..so true!!!Definitely!!!

You Are a Coy Flirt!

You're not so much a flirt as the type of girl who draws flirts in While you look like you're just relaxing, secretly you've got your game on A little look here, a little wink there... you give men the encouragement they crave And in return, they flirt up a storm with you - while you just sit and smile

What Kind of Flirty Girl Are You?

So so true..DUn hate me!!!

You Are a Great Liar

You can pretty much pull anything over on anyone. You are an expert liar, even if you don't lie very often.

Are You a Good Liar?

Itz Blogthings baybeh!!!!

You Are 60% Real

You're pretty real with people, but you can't help hiding a good part of yourself. You're not truly happy with who you are at times... and believe it or not, it shows. Try not to hide parts of your life from the people who matter to you. Your friends and family are probably a lot more accepting than you realize!

How Real Are You?

VITAMIN C!!!!!..;p

HAHA,no im not talkin bout the vitamin supplement or any healthy tips, just in case if those came rite to ur mind after seeing dat title..Instead im talking bout the Vitamin C whose famous wif their graduation(friends 4ever) song..ya,the one dat remind u of ur school years(gosipping,pre-matured,mean girls,the 'it' group a.k.a the popular kids,the geeks,experiences n most importante---CRUSHCRUSHCRUSH---)haha,really miz my 'younger' years..but hey,dat doesnt mean im a married woman or an older lady now, im still the 'young n dangerous'(LOL) but definitely a grown up olredy(sumthings in between,told ya before,not a gurl not yet a woman),leaving my naive-innocente years behind..;p...
OK,back 2 the point,bout the VITAMIN C,im talkin bout their other songs titled SMILE,perfectly 4 our lives, i mean take it as a guide 2 live ur life a better way,juz read the lyrics and u'll understand..

Alright...
Alright...

First of all

When you wake up in the evening and the day is shot
Find yourself complaining 'bout the thing you ain't got
Never crossed just the way that you wanted it to
Cliche of the day, cest la vie that's just

[Chorus:]
Life, it ain't easy
It's so tough
It ain't easy
(Whatchu wanna do, say whatchu gonna do)
Put a smile on your face
Make the world a better place
Put a smile on your face
(Whatchu wanna do, say whatchu gonna do)
Put a smile on your face
Make the world a better place
Put a smile on your face
(Whatchu wanna do, say whatchu gonna do)

And another thing

You can say that I'm a dreamer and you think it's uncool
Preaching 'bout the better life I learned in school
But you get what you give in this life that we live
And all that you do come back to you

[Repeat Chorus]

Yo,
When things isn't right there's no need to fight
Come on be nice
No need to fight
Stay polite even when you're hurting don't forget to smile
Give love to (?)
When you do good you'll get your reward
United with undivided we fall
Put a smile on your face and greet one and all

[Repeat Chorus]

People love you when you smile
And hate you when it's through
Lots of happiness
We are wishing you
If you come from Jamaica or Honolulu, yeah
Keep a smile on your face
I'll see the good that you do

Smile (smile)
And everything will be fine..

The Video Clip


Moral Of The Story : No matter wat happens,bad or gud,like it or not, PUT A SMILE ON UR FACE!!!Even datz a fake one,LOL..YEAY!!!Make the world a better place!!Its easy hun,JUZ SMILE!!!!:)

And coz i juz luv luv luv diz song so much,im gonna put diz one also..